Hello
I am not sure if more than one child is classed as a 'larger family' but would appreciate opinions anyway.
We have a lovely daughter, 2 yrs old. I really would like another but my partner has said we can't even consider it as we need our own house first. Currently we live in my 4 bedroom family home, with my Dad. My little girl loves seeing her grandad every day and we are paying a small rent to live here.
If we wait until we own a house it will be up to 5 years at which point DD will be 7. I feel that gap will be too large ad we will also be mid 30's and I am not sure I will have the enrgy to go back to the baby stages then.
At the moment we also pay £600 for a childminder 3 days a week so in my head I feel it would be better to have a 2nd now and get all the childcare fee's out of the way so that when we do have our house we won't have any fees to pay as the kiddies would both be at school.
In a way I wish I was happy to stick at one but there is something physical about wanting another for me. What does everyone think? It's making me a bit sad and I feel like talking to my partner again but feel it won't be any use.
Thanks!
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greeneone12 · 07/03/2013 12:11
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