Am 37 and already have 3 children, twins who are 7 and a 3 year old. Did not think I could get pg due to various health issues. In total shock having done test this morning. Terrified about finances, lack of sleep, lack of space, how older children will cope and finding time for them when time is squeezed already. Have been looking forward to DC3 starting school next September. I cope very badly with lack of sleep, I am not an earth mother type and I crave my own space. We have no help or family nearby.
Totally overwhelmed and in shock. Went to see doctor just now who told me a brief summary of my "options". Brought up as a cradle although lapsed Catholic and even though I completely respect every women's right to choose and would never think badly of someone having an abortion - I don't know if I could do it and as they're booking me in for a scan as I don't know how far along I am I don't know if I can see the baby and then not have it.
I fiercely adore my 3 dc and part of me would love to see this little one and get to know it and I know the baby stage doesn't last forever but I did get very down in that stage with all 3- i think due to tiredness and living remotely. DC3 was a terrible toddler, very headstrong and huge screaming tantrums most days and I feel that's used up a lot of my energy in parenting. Having twins the first time around was knackering and I think that used up a lot of my energy in the new baby stage. But I love the stage they're at now, I love talking to them and hearing their thoughts and ideas and views on the world.
I don't know what the point of my ramble is, perhaps to know that I am not alone and that things might be alright? Agghh..I'm sorry if I've offended anyone by anything in my post, I'm not quite thinking straight.
Any help/pulling self together gratefully received.
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Just found out pregnant with no 4. Totally overwhelmed, please help me!
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hattyyellow · 07/11/2012 12:48
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