Can someone please help me help DS1.
DD1 (10) went to prep school in yr 3 settled well no problems. DS1 (8) went to prep school last year settled well, slightly tired no problems at all. DS2 (7) has started this year, he is doing so well it is great (he had a bad education year last year and went through 2 schools in a year). However, DS1 is now wobbling a lot. He has been in trouble for fighting with DS2, has been rude to teachers (who were comparing him to DS2 at the time) and is generally have a sad time. The school are great, we have spoken about it straight after it happened and they agree that it is because the younger DS is doing so well and the older one is feeling like he is left out and not as good. Staff have been told not to compare but the other children are going to do it as they are 16 months apart and look so alike. I feel really sad for DS1 he is getting in trouble and he feels like everyone hates him and loves DS2. I have been trying to reassure him but he won't listen, we have had mummy time and daddy time (well as much as you can get when he is working 100+ hour weeks) on his own and he is lovely then.
The worst bit is they have always been so close although DS1 is closer now to DD2 (4) I don't want competitiveness at school to ruin how my 2 DS interact.
Is this normal middle child issues and how do I help DS1 overcome it?
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whenIgetto3 · 21/09/2011 13:44
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