I know this has been asked before but I would really appreciate some MNetters thoughts.
I have 3 DC (ages 4.5, 2.9 and 14 months). My younger two seem to pick up every bug going and so we have had a lot of sleepless nights, but in general we are ticking along fine. I work part-time and on the days I am home with the girls I am fortunate enough to have a couple of hours help.
So, the rational part of me thinks we have reached a lovely stage and that it would be great to move away from babydom. (I tend to think this most during the night when I am looking after a teething baby!)
But the pesky emotional side won't go away. I see four children in our family though the thought of the logistics, the night-wakings, the noise etc fills me with horror. Plus I don't know any other families with more than 2 kids.
My husband is supportive if we stay at three or have four but he feels it must be my choice as in a way it affects me more. Either way he is 100% committed in whichever path I choose.
We do not live in a big house so bedroom sharing will be needed, as will a new car...
How do those with 4 function? How do you juggle it all and make time for each of your kids? Am I over-thinking it? Would I regret not going for it?
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wiggetywac · 29/07/2011 10:33
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