We have 3dcs, dd1-just5, dd2 3, ds15mth. We would love a fourth and originally planned to ttc at the end of the year therefore dd1&2 would both be at school when baby arrived and ds would be 6mth off pre school funding, so can imagine it being slightly easier to juggle.
Dont want any bigger gap really as the gaps so far are 21mth between and2 then 24mth between 2and3. Really like the close gaps now but do admit to finding the first 6mth with dc3 tough at times as they were all at home and the summer hols were tough towards the end. I f we stick to the plan i wont have to combat the summer hol 2012 with four one of which being a young baby BUT me and dh are finding it hard to wait now we have made our decision we are exciting about the prospect of no4 but also want to enjoy to the max as this will be our last, keep trying to tell myself its only a few months to wait but impatient and thinking go for it we will get hrough the summer its only a few weeks dont get me wrong i love them all being around but know a newborn would be easier intially with a few hours with the older children getting some outside entertainment.
Ive just realised im waffling! My dh says lets do it onw as if we have a september baby he or she will be a late school starter and that may not be a good thing being the fourth as our second already seems ready for school she cant wait cant imagine her not going for a year after she is due to start (sept12)
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threecurrantbuns · 13/07/2011 14:26
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