Someone to talk too...

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MummaToSon2018 Mon 11-May-20 12:47:44

I’ve been TTC my second child for 2 1/2 years. I fell pregnant with my 1st Son unexpectedly afternoon 6 years TTC. I was doing no OPKs and had given up. My cycles are between 28-30 days usually and I’ve been using OPK’s which confirm ovulation every month. Both my Husband and I have had lots of tests and no problems?

I’m currently on CD 42. Ovulation was confirmed on CD 17 which was 17th April. My last period was 31st March. I’ve done several tests - all BFN (last one was on Saturday CD 40).

I have had cramping on and off since a week before AF was due, I’ve got lots of thick white CM and feel generally tired, emotional and bloated.

Is there still hope? (I’d rather honesty)... what’s the latest others have had BFPs? what else can cause a miss period because I wish it would just come so I can rest for the next month?

And how do you’ll keep the faith 😭. I’m so sad all the time and I can’t stop thinking about it!

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ivfgottostaypositive Mon 11-May-20 13:55:04

Sorry OP if you haven't had a BFP now I'd say you're out this month

What tests did you have done?

MummaToSon2018 Mon 11-May-20 14:56:30

I’ve had lots of scans and blood test and Hubby has had the usuals too.
I had what my Hubby thought was faint positive on Tesco own brand on Sat but I’m not convinced and felt like at a week late it’d be strong!

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Aliceblue22 Tue 12-May-20 11:16:58


I think I can relate; fiancé and I have been trying for just under two years for number one and we have been lucky enough to have no underlying issues come up during fertility testing. ( Other than a small patch of ENDO we knew was already present).
We are currently in month 2 of our 6 month wait for IVF if we don't get BFP first.

I've had a very difficult morning with a BFN so am looking to support others in a similar position which may in turn help myself!
My last period was April 15th and my cycle is 25-32 days. Had some strong front and back cramping at about 3am (I have a tilted cervix (sorry if TMI) so I always get back pain too) which kept me awake, so rather than spending the next few days daydreaming and upsetting myself I thought I'd test, so I can move on.
I still haven't come on yet so I may not be out this month, so I think we're in the same boat!

Sending lots of positive vibes your way OP!

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