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2ww - I'm sure it's failure

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Rd12 Sun 24-Nov-19 20:30:36

Anyone else? I've got 5 days until testing. Got period type symptoms the last two days.

itwasalovelydreamwhileitlasted Sun 24-Nov-19 20:43:10

I did my transfer today - a 5BB PGS tested low level mosaic so we know odds are against us. I don't feel remotely excited about the next week - I know I'll test early but have zero hopes that it's worked x

Rd12 Sun 24-Nov-19 20:56:44

@itwasalovelydreamwhileitlasted sorry you are feeling hopeless, I have read about people still having success though with lower grade. Fingers crossed for you. I had a day 3 transfer due to OHSS and I did not note the grade, however we were told it was good. So I was quite hopeful but I am convinced today it hasn't worked and i've been stressing myself out can't stand the thought of work tomorrow.

itwasalovelydreamwhileitlasted Tue 26-Nov-19 14:24:47

@Rd12
How have you been getting on? Any symptoms? Have you decided to test early? X

Rd12 Tue 26-Nov-19 19:31:13

@itwasalovelydreamwhileitlasted I got my period this morning. I'm very upset, I had to go to work straight after and pretend all day because no one knows. It was a hard day. I just have lots of negative feelings now like its never going to happen. We don't have lots of money to go private. So probably one more go but my partner needs SSR aswell. So much to think about. I'm nearly 39 and keep worrying about age too.It feels like there is a lot again us. How about you?

itwasalovelydreamwhileitlasted Tue 26-Nov-19 21:07:53

@Rd12
Oh no I'm sorry this cycle has failed! Is this your first one? Did you have any frozen?
I feel ok - zero symptoms so I'm not feeling hopeful either x

Rd12 Tue 26-Nov-19 21:59:29

@itwasalovelydreamwhileitlasted yes it was our first cycle on NHS. We only get one. I do have unfertilised eggs frozen. They only had enough sperm to use half. So have about 10 left. I just don't know if they used all the best ones trying first time. I've been researching all night to try and find private clinics and male infertility specialists. We need to get more sperm so that's the next challenge. I feel better looking ahead to the next step.

Its hard to stay positive in the 2ww isn't it? Even though I though we had a good chance due to good embryo I just didn't feel positive at all. Throughout the rest of the process I felt extremely positive and hopeful. I really hope it works for you, let me know!

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