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TtTC 19 Months - very lonely

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Yas32 Sun 27-Oct-19 09:21:30

Hi

Weve been trying to concieve for what feels like an eternity.
Im currently going through a period of sadness & dark.
It feels so lonely because when i talk to my DH he becomes upset and emotional so i hate telling him how im feeling.

Anyone else in the same boat???

Maisy24 Sun 27-Oct-19 13:48:59

Hello,

We have been TTC for amount 15-16 months but only been tracking and pinpointing ovulation for around 10 months. It is normal to feel like this, we have good months and bad months. Just wanted to send some love and let you know you are not alone. Try to concentrate on the good things you have and keep telling yourself it will happen when it's meant to happen.

Have you had any tests done or anything?

Xxx

Iwouldbecomplex Sun 27-Oct-19 16:26:40

You're not alone. I know it feels it sometimes, and it's hard when you don't know anyone in real life who is in the same boat, and even if your partner is good at talking about it and tries his best I don't think a man can really truely understand how you feel. But that's what forums like MN are there for - to get support from people who genuinely do understand and are in the same situation. There's loads of us and we get it.

DH and I have been TTC for 21 months. 2 chemical pregnancies, 3 failed IVF's, so so many tests and investigations. Currently in the middle of 4th ivf cycle. It all sucks really really badly. I feel for you, I really do. If you feel like you need more real life support have you considered a support group? I know it's not something everyone is up for, but you might find it helpful. And sometimes the only thing that keeps me going is doing the research, having a plan and feeling as in control of what's happening as possible. I'd like to say it gets easier, but for me it doesn't. Hopefully you won't be in this position for a long time but you might be, and you need to find a way to make it as easy on yourself as you can. 💐💐 xxx

HelloViroids Sun 27-Oct-19 16:29:21

Have also been TTC for 21 months, although was pregnant for 3 of those before MMC. It does feel very lonely, I agree.flowers

Yas32 Sun 16-Feb-20 20:45:18

Hiya

Just an update

We have been seeing the fertility Drs and theyve agreed to freeze my husbands sperm in case the quality drops
We are going down the adoption route, initial visit is due this week Thursday. So excited & nervous.

I hope you have good news to share.

Weve been trying to get pregnant nearly 2 years now with no joy due to husbands sperm quality being so low.
We might do IVF in the future but not at present.

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