Support during the tww after ivf anyone else slowing going insane?!

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2fingers22018 Sun 20-Oct-19 13:21:56

Just as i said test date is the 24th and im goin nuts with the wait any support or anyone else needing support please join 💉💞👶

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2fingers22018 Sun 20-Oct-19 14:02:13

Bump x

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Kirmcd Sun 20-Oct-19 16:40:44

I’m the same day! The waiting is grim! I’m very anxious all the time! 😩

2fingers22018 Sun 20-Oct-19 17:53:25

@Kirmcd thanks for replying how long have u been ttc? Are you on fertility treatment?

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MrsGEW Mon 21-Oct-19 09:02:44

I had my transfer on Friday so only 3 days in and its torture. Thankfully back at work today so should be able to distract myself!
Have you had any symptoms? Have you been tempted to test early? xx

2fingers22018 Mon 21-Oct-19 16:34:25

@MrsGEW thats the worst part i know i cant test early since the hormones from my trigger injection could cause a false positive convincing myself im not pregnant the thought of goin through all this again is makin me feel soo panicky..whens ur test date?

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MrsGEW Mon 21-Oct-19 16:39:21

My OTD is 1st November, so some way off yet, but I'll prob do a HPT on Mon 28th, that will be 10dpt. It was double FET so i dont have to worry about trigger shot. I'm going from feeling excited and happy to feeling down and worried. I just keep telling myself not to get my hopes up.

2fingers22018 Mon 21-Oct-19 17:19:42

@MrsGEW its soo hard isnt it?! im currently in bed typing this how long have u been ttc? we re 4yrs in and its a struggle to stay positive when uve had soo much disappointment im tryin to protect my sanity at this point its a rollercoaster!

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MrsGEW Tue 22-Oct-19 07:47:56

We've been TTC for 2.5 year but we've known for most of that , that our only way forward was treatment. We're not entitled to NHS treatment either, so we've had our FET in Spain - we've had two donor embryos.
Yeah it is definitely testing my sanity, and my emotions are all over the place. Had a little cry last night worrying about it now working.
No symptons this morning either which makes me wonder if i imagined it all yesterday too! Arrrgh

2fingers22018 Tue 22-Oct-19 12:22:49

@MrsGEW wow thats alot its hard enough tryin to go through ivf nevermind the added stress and costs uve had travelling etc im 7dpt aagghh our minds play tricks on us dnt they? Im tryin to accept the worst but the thought of goin through it all again is scaring me! My OH is really down aswell hows urs holding up? X

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MrsGEW Tue 22-Oct-19 12:35:39

My OH is really excited but again trying to keep his feet on the ground.
To be honest we enjoyed our little mini break to spain last week .The weather was nice - 26C - and the food was amazing. The flights were long either. It worked out cheaper than in UK. Not sure it will be after all the Brexit malarkey, but we've already got a UK option in mind for if this cycle doesn't work.

2fingers22018 Tue 22-Oct-19 20:12:11

@MrsGEW oh well thats one bonus little mini break sounds gd i know ive heard other ladies on here worrying if brexit will affect them receiving meds very worrying. Im back in work 2morro then a family meal fx that distracts me a bit more i feel like times in slow motion atm but come test day i think al b stressing out over testing!

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MrsGEW Wed 23-Oct-19 09:33:06

Yeah i feel like time has stopped! Not even work is distracting me! I'm agonising over every niggle and cramp and twinge and its driving me crazy today!

2fingers22018 Wed 23-Oct-19 10:29:17

@MrsGEW me too but im dreading testing now crazy

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MrsGEW Wed 23-Oct-19 11:43:44

I'm itching to test now but i know its too early.

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