When can we try again.

(8 Posts)
Pleaseletitbeme Sat 08-Jun-19 20:55:46

So tomorrow I have a d+c to remove the embryo which stopped developing at 6+1.
All that is keeping me going right now is the thought of my next round of FET.
I don’t know what to expect tomorrow- can anyone shed some light?
Also if this is something you went through and then wanted to go again for FET, how long did you have to wait?
Many thanks.

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itwasalovelydreamwhileitlasted Sat 08-Jun-19 20:59:03

They will want you to have a normal period first - count the day of your D&C as cycle day one - then it will depend on how long it will take for you to ovulate and then it's after that next period you can arrange another FET - sometimes I have ovulated quickly after a miscarriage other times it has been up to 6 weeks

Pleaseletitbeme Sat 08-Jun-19 21:12:09

Thank you. Xx

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LillyLeaf Sat 08-Jun-19 22:14:48

I'm still waiting to bleed after stopping my progesterone yesterday but I'm going to ask my clinic if I can start Buserelin before my period. This is my 2nd MMC and last time it took 42 days get my period, I don't want to wait that long.

Pleaseletitbeme Sat 08-Jun-19 22:29:24

Lilyleaf. Sorry to hear.... please let me know how you get along.

So am
I rightbin understanding nothing can happen until your second period? So two months roughly?

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Eggcellent29 Sun 09-Jun-19 09:15:04

I had a missed miscarriage at 8 weeks in March and we are due for our FeT transfer next week, so about 3.5 months from finding out to actual transfer day.

I had a natural miscarriage (absolute worst experience of my life, never been so terrified and bleed for weeks afterwards) so this may have delayed things and a D&C may allow you start sooner?

Eggcellent29 Sun 09-Jun-19 09:15:36

2.5 not 3.5!


LillyLeaf Sun 09-Jun-19 09:51:31

It might also depend on your protocol. So I had the 42day cycle after the MC, then a period, then mine was to start Buserelin on cd21 to down reg, then have another period with a baseline scan, I had to down reg for a bit longer as my lining hadn't shed enough, then another baseline scan, then transfer was 21 days later with a 5day blast. So I was actually a long time until transfer. All the waiting is awful. I think mine was just over 3 months from MC bleed to transfer, god I hope I'm not waiting that long this time. I hope today goes ok.

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