Hi guys
So today I had FET. And as much as I wanted it to be an exciting happy experience it has turned out dreadful.
My husband had a vasectomy 10 years ago as he and his ex wife had decided on no more children.
We got married and I always expressed my wishes to have a child. He never closed that door.
Fast forward ... he had a testes biopsy 3 days ago and we got 8 embryos from my 2 Egg retrieval cycles.
We have honestly been arguing non stop since we found out the date for his biopsy and it’s all been about his issues around this process. From not being a participant in the act of making a baby, to anger at his ex, to me being grateful. Etc etc etc.
we have had some tough times and yesterday we seemed to have dealt with everything. I’ve been reassuring and attending to every concern of his.
Today and FET Day and you would think he would be able to put his darkness aside for one day but no.... the drive there was like a funeral procession. The man is miserable.
And I’m so peed off that there just couldn’t be a glimmer of happiness on today for me. I honestly feel like if this cycle fails, I couldn’t go through another simply because he won’t cope.
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Husband not coping and can’t see past his own darkness
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mikkyr · 11/05/2019 13:25
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