Hi everyone, I guess I just want to rant at what has been one hell of a shit show since being referred by my GP.
I waited several months for my first Gyna appointment which was in October 2018. The consultant was off sick so I saw a stand in Doctor (not sure what the correct term is). Having listened to me she said that I could not be referred and suggested I find a sperm donor myself. I got upset because my GP had led me to believe that I could be referred for IVF.
She went into the other room for a 2nd opinion and the Doctor said that I could be referred after all. I had my HSG last month and then an appt with Gyna last Thursday. He looked at my HSG results and said tubes were clear however my progesterone level was only 1, which meant it was unlikely I was ovulating so I am likely to be infertile.
The nurse looked over his shoulder and said no, day 1 of period I was number 1 but by day 21 I was number 19 (I really am not sure what these mean, some say good, some say bad). Anyway he said the referral will continue and that the stand in doctor last time had referred me to fertility clinic and showed me a letter.
I asked what hospital I had been referred to and they didn't know.
I have spent all morning calling round and the hospital said they have no record of me being referred. Gyna secretary said she can see that I was referred but not sure why hospital have not received this. She is going to look into it when she receives my notes.
I just feel so sad about it all. What If I have to go back to the start of the waiting list? I am 38 and feel that time is not on my side.
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Feel like giving up and I haven't even started yet. IUI/IVF referral
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MeltedCheese82 · 11/03/2019 14:24
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