5DP5DFET - 2ww rollercoaster

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XmasPudPlsd Wed 30-Jan-19 18:23:55

I am 5 days past a 5 day transfer of a frozen blast and like a total maniac I have been testing since day 3, with BFNs each time!

This was our third transfer. Our second was a fresh blast of the same batch as this one which resulted in pregnancy but sadly due to an incompetent cervix I had a preterm labour and gave birth to our little boy at 16 weeks, too young to survive. That was October last year.

I feel like having had a BFP previously it's really hard not to compare symptoms and my boobs are no way near as sore as I remember them being last time.

How does anyone else get through this awful waiting game? Three goes in and I still don't think I know what I am doing!

Thanks in advance star

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Elly1685 Wed 30-Jan-19 19:00:29

Hey, I'm so sorry to hear your story. it must have been a very difficult time for you.

I've had a fresh transfer which was BFN and 1 FET which was ectopic.

I've just had a FET transfer yesterday so I'm currently 1dp5dt and just started the terrible 2ww.

I just try to keep myself busy (but relaxed) with work and make plans for the evenings, going to family, going to the cinema, going for a walk.

I find its the evenings after work that it gets to me. Have you got any activities planned that will keep you busy?


XmasPudPlsd Fri 01-Feb-19 07:55:10

Thanks so much @Elly1685 I'm going to make the most of being off work today and take the dog for a walk with my mum.

How are you doing? Xxxx

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Elly1685 Sun 03-Feb-19 16:25:35

Hey I’m ok- I’m 5dp5dt today so getting edgy about testing and trying not to symptom spot.

How about you? Have you tested yet? Xx

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