Hi,
My fiancé had leukaemia when he was 21 and as he had total body radiation along with other treatments, he can't produce any sperm. He had four straws frozen just before starting treatment so we're hoping that they will be of good quality, he's 28 now and I'm 27 with no known fertility issues.
I have some questions that probably seem daft but I'm worrying myself silly with them, our first appointment isn't for another week yet so I'm hoping some of you lovely lot might be able to help me out please?
Is there a minimum length of time you need to have been with your partner before they'll consider you?
I struggled with depression and self-harm as a teen, would this mean they wouldn't see me as being a fit parent? I was signed off work due to stress in June but I was being bullied by my manager who has now been dismissed, so I'm also worried about that!
Is there anything that I should be doing before the appointment? My BMI is 29 so I'm trying my best to get fitter at the gym, I'm 5ft10 and around 14st7.
Sorry to ask so many questions, I'm just desperate to not do anything wrong
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BellaShLex · 04/09/2018 10:12
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