Is having sex without fertile CM pointless?

(5 Posts)
AliceScarlett Mon 03-Sep-18 22:29:29

Sex isn't fun anymore, I never see fertile fluid, so what is the point if the swimmers can't get through?

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seven201 Mon 03-Sep-18 22:44:47

You buy sperm friendly lubricant such as pre-seed or conceive plus. Both on amazon and other places.

AliceScarlett Tue 04-Sep-18 06:56:08

We can't use it, DH says it reduces the friction, so he doesn't finish.

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Bunbunbunny Tue 04-Sep-18 12:06:42

Your DH is being a bit selfish in not wanting to use lube as it can be painful without. Can't he compromise during your non fertile periods to use lube so you can enjoy it? It doesn't matter if he doesn't finish inside then can finish off another way

seven201 Sat 08-Sep-18 18:52:34

Although the sperm friendly lube is meant to help Its definitely still possible to get pregnant without it.

Controversial but... could you put a small amount in (the pre-seed one is meant to be inserted) and pretend it's natural! Also, if you're not seeing fluid and he wants friction doesn't that make you sore?

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