After 2.5 years of trying for DC2, we’ve decided to keep trying till the end of the year and then give up. How do you cope with it? How do you stop knowing when your FW is? How do you adjust to the idea that it isn’t going to happen? I’m 41 and have conceived twice. The first was ectopic and I lost a tube, and the second was my DC (3).
And although I know the comments might be well-meaning, I’d really appreciate if people didn’t say ‘as soon as you relax/give up trying, it’ll happen!’ because it won’t and pretending otherwise does not help.
Thanks and to anyone going through similar.
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How do you cope with giving up for DC2?
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WeedyPigeon · 03/09/2018 18:42
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