DH and I have been TTC#2 for 19 months now. Not a single BFP in that time. I've tried using OPKs, charting, temping, 'relaxing', nothing seems to make a difference.
We had initial tests done on the NHS. Day21 bloods came back normal as did DH SA. NHS won't offer us any other tests or intervention so we'd have to continue the journey going private.
The costs for further tests at the only private clinic in our area is £800. This includes a repetition of the tests we've had done and a hycosy and pelvic scan.
We're not particularly hard up, but Don't necessarily have £800 lying around. I just don't know what to do, do I pay to have further tests, knowing that if there is an issue then I can't afford any treatment, or carry on TTC naturally?
I just have nothing left emotionally. I know I should be happy that I have one DD but I just feel at such a loss sometimes, mourning the larger family that I may never have.
Sorry about the rambling post, and I'm not even sure if anyone can give me an answer. I'm just having a really hard day today.
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Eminen · 03/09/2018 15:58
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