Things are particularly hard today.
I’ve locked myself in the bathroom to silently fall apart, I don’t know why it’s all so painful today.
Sometimes I feel I don’t want to go on and can’t imagine life without a child.
I’ve left it all too late.
I’ve come down in weight from 20st 4 in January to 16 st 4 now.
I need a BMI of 35 max as in my area women over 37 years old can be accepted for fertility treatment at higher bmi.
I sort of know it won’t work for me though.
Been trying to conceive naturally for 5 years.
I’m s fat failure. Everyone asking me what’s going on, I’m too ashamed to spell it out to them and even my partner that my weight has huge amount to do with my failure.
I think only one cycle of ivf will be offered if I ever meet criteria. My body has failed me and I’ve failed my body, ivf would probably not work, also given I’m nearly 37yrs old means my best window has been missed.
I feel my only option won’t work.
Is there any options after this.
I try to read the threads but don’t understand the accromins.
I’m rambling and feel sick for the future, I just want a baby . I don’t even know what I’m asking.
Gp tests were fine for both me and partner.
My mum had early menopause at 36 but don’t know if it was brought on premature by some gyne surgery.
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Almost 37, too fat for fertility treatment desperate and running out of time.
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Theconifers25 · 08/07/2018 09:51
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