I will be 40 in September and I have an amazing daughter who will be 5 in June. I met my, now, fiance in 2012 and fell pregnant after 2 months partly as I was given to believe I'd struggle to get pregnant due to suspected ovarian cysts and coeliac disease so we weren't careful but we were delighted to find out we were expecting!
I was made redundant while on maternity leave, my fiance already has 2 children from a previous marriage and works away Monday-Friday, and we were really struggling for money so when I found out I was pregnant at the end of 2016 we made the difficult decision that we weren't in the position to have another baby and I had an abortion; a decision I regret terribly now. I found work 3 months later and 3 months after that I found out I was pregnant again! After 4 difficult years we were delighted, so you can imagine how I felt when I started spotting on the morning of my 12 week scan and then found out I had miscarried at 8 weeks.
I suffer from depression, anxiety and insomnia but manage very well but, still, I have had to give up my full time job as I was struggling being on my own during the week, we have only lived in our area about a year and so have few friends nearby and no family, and I need to spend more time with my daughter.
I would love another baby but since my micarriage last June we have not used protection but my period comes every month! This month my period had been slow to come with 3 days of spotting and terribly tender/sore breasts and hot flushes and now I'm worried I'm starting menopause at not even 40 and that I've left it too late.
Has anyone experienced anything similar?
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antoniaeml · 05/04/2018 00:58
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