Hi ladies!
I’m hoping some fellow women on here could offer me some advice.
Just a bit of background...We have been with our local fertility clininc for 6 months now, test for me (29) and DH (32) have come back good, except my progesterone levels on day 21 were always very low (on the 3 blood tests done). We were given Clomid to try for 6 months in October 2017. I got pregnant first time (after 16 months ttc #1) but unfortunately this ended in MC in December. We restarted Clomid in Jan and no pregnancies since :(
At the time of our next fertility appointment (in a few weeks) we will have been ttc for 20months. I spoke to the doctor on the phone last week, they advised the last 3 rounds of Clomid I have will be the last (as they can’t prescribe it for longer than 6 months) and the next step is IVF referral.
HOWEVER she advised, because of my age and our results, I wait until November 2018 and ttc naturally before they refer us for IVF (as that will be a year since we last got pregnant). Apparently because my cycles are regular (28 days) she said it means I am in fact ovulating (regardless of the day 21 results and my AF only lasting 1 day). This has totally confused me and goes against everything I have read?
The decision is ours (or at least I hope they can make us wait, can they?) so I guess my questions are:
- if we decided to go ahead with the referal in March 2018, what are the next steps and when would we realistically be starting IVF (with current wait lists etc)?
- Did anyone on here wait a little longer and get pregnant before ivf (without Clomid or any other fertility drugs?)
Any advice would be greatly appreciated! During the call with the Dr I thought about holding off on the referal till then, but the more I think about the more I think I’m best starting the process now so I can prepare myself mentally.