I'm 35, DP 41, ttc #1 for 21 months. We've had bloods/SA/HSG/ultrasound and we are unexplained. Seeing consultant again in Nov at which point presume will be offered IVF referral. We are fortunate to live in an area where 3 cycles are funded. Shit scared, am total wuss about all medical stuff and want to cry just thinking about it, but if that's what needs to happen will have to suck it up somehow.
I think I need to feel like I've at least explored all options, so I'm trying to prepare what I want to ask at our appointment. The main thing playing on my mind is IUI. I know it's not available on the NHS any more, and I know the success rates are not high, but I'm wondering whether trying three cycles of that privately before IVF (poss while waiting) would be in any way sensible. I have no feeling for how long that could take and whether it could be a bad idea or worth a punt. Anyone have any experiences/suggestions? I don't want to waste too much time/money but I'm worried about rushing straight to IVF, particularly when nothing has been found to be actually wrong.
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IUI at 35?
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TryingToStayRational · 04/08/2017 16:14
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