Hi all I just wanted to see if anyone was in the same boat.
I am 35 and OH and I have been ttc for the last two years. OH has extremely low morphology counts so we have had one round of ICSI in which we got a bfp but miscarried at 11 weeks and the next FET failed. We don't have any Frosties left.
I feel like we are at a crossroads. We funded the ICSI ourselves as the NHS waiting list was huge and they wanted us to be trying for longer but we didn't feel time was on our side. We have now run out of money so are at a crossroads. We have a consultation with the NHS fertility consultant on the 20th July to understand if we could have treatment with the NHS and what timescales would look like.
We have also been to an adoption open day to understand our options there as well as we realise the most important thing to us is that we have a family
In all honesty the treatment had taken its toll and we just don't know if we want to do it again - emotionally we found the FET very hard.
Anyone out there in a similar position and struggling to decide next steps? X
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user1497036202 · 29/06/2017 10:18
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