Firstly-I'm sorry if this is not the right place to post this or if it comes across insensitive in any way.
I'd really like some advice.
I'm 9wks pregnant - we were going to tell people after a scan in a few weeks (we already had a private scan this week).
My friend is going through ivf. I knew this already and was going to tell her before any general announcement (it'll be a status update on FB: no scan picture or anything too attention grabby. I don't like FB but we have lots of friends all over the world so it's just easiest). However she's just told me that she's half way through another cycle, meaning she'll find out if she's pregnant a few days before we were going to announce.
I already have DC so she probably won't be too surprised at another baby.
We're close but not extremely close-but I care deeply about her.
When would be best to tell her? Asap (before she finds out about her cycle)? Just before we tell other people as planned?
What would be the least painful option?
Again, apologies if this is a tactless or hurtful post.
Thanks.
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Help on telling friend going through ivf about my pregnancy
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ricepolo · 20/01/2017 13:51
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