Hi, not sure if this is the most appropriate board so apologies if not.
I'm 35, I conceived DS1 on first cycle nearly 3 years ago (cannot believe how blasé I was about that at the time!).
Been ttc #2 for 10 months now, started getting concerned a couple of months ago so got all the 'basic' tests done privately - HSG etc. Mine have been fine so far but just got semen analysis results and DH sperm count is low - 5 million (apparently 15 million is on the low side of 'normal'). Motility is good.
I don't know where to go next. He's healthy, doesn't drink much or smoke etc so all he can do is start taking the vitamins (and stop carrying his phone in his pocket) but I have no idea what our chances are of conceiving naturally.
I always wanted an age gap of 2-3 years so time is fast running out for that. I'd be more relaxed if I knew it would happen but would just take longer - but I don't want to spend another year trying then end up going for IVF or something when I could just start all that now.
On the other hand part of me doesn't know if I could go through all that with a DS to deal with and whether we should just accept that we'll stick with one (we both REALLY want two, though).
Is there any chance of IVF/IUI/etc on NHS for a second child? I thought not but a few posts I've read on here suggest perhaps otherwise?
I'm just a bit shellshocked I think, panicking!
Also - any advice as to how often to dtd? We were trying every other day from day 8 or so then every day for the three days around positive OPK. Now I'm wondering if we should've gone for quality over quantity (fairly sure the fertility consultant told us there's no such thing as too often, though)...
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TTC#2 but just found out DH low sperm count - what to do?
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blackcherries · 17/12/2016 19:46
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