Hi,
Sorry this is long - but I'd appreciate help from any one with any experience of this condition.
So I've been TTC #1 for 13+ months now and I've been doing everything within my power to successfully conceive: healthy eating/drinking, vitamins & supplements, daily exercise, opks, SMEP, temping and more. The longer it has gone on, the more and more I have scrutinised my body and cycles for tell tale signs that something's wrong but never really found anything concrete.
Saturday night I got the mother of all AFs. Excruciating period cramps, couldn't sleep, felt like I needed to throw up. I used to get period cramps like that all the time when I was younger (16-21). The last time I remember getting pains that bad was when I fainted during a London production of Les Miserables and woke up in hospital. After that episode, I was put on the contraceptive pill and since then I've generally been able to get on with the day to day with some good painkillers to hand.
My biggest fear of of coming off the pill 14 months ago was that this pain would return. Luckily it hasn't, but Saturday night's episode got me thinking about it all again. So I just started googling dysmenorrhoea (as you do) looking to see if there was any more supplements I could take to ease the pain if it happened again and - quite by chance - I found an article about endometriosis.
My mind was blown by the list of symptoms. I think I've always just taken these in my stride and assumed they were normal for the time of the month:
Painful periods, heavy periods (I have to use a super absorbent tampon and night-time panty liner to last a couple of hours at work), pain during and after sex (sometimes, normally in the week leading up to AF), loss of old/dark blood (I get a weeks worth of brown spotting before AF fully happens), bleeding from the bowel (only during AF),
painful bowel movements (only before/during AF), and of course difficulty getting pregnant.
The article also went on to explain that if you think you may have this condition, it is worth asking your mum if she ever was diagnosed as it can be heredity. So, I text my mum yesterday to see if she had ever been diagnosed and to my surprise, she replied that she had and it was the reason she had a hysterectomy at the age of 33.
Now obviously my mother did manage to conceive eventually but it took her 16 months to conceive me and longer to conceive my sister. I'm not sure I can just sit by and hope for the best, so I've booked my Doctor's appointment but my biggest fear is that they will not do anything or will just put me in for the standard first blood tests when I know that the best thing they could be doing is a laparoscopy.
I just want to know what you would do in my situation - whether I should push to have a laparoscopy or if the Doctor refuses, whether I should ask them to refer me privately.
I am so certain that this is the reason I've been having trouble, like I said the rest of my cycle is fine as far as I can tell.
Any help appreciated
Sk1p xx
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Endometriosis - any sufferers?
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sk1pper · 03/10/2016 14:08
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