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WANTED - Anyone in, or about to start 2ww post IVF/FET?

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funkymonk Fri 10-Jun-16 11:20:21

Currently going insane on 2WW post FET. Today is 3dp5dt. First transfer after a difficult time with unreponsive thin lining. No idea what to expect. Looking for cycle buddies to share this time with...

kmmr Sat 11-Jun-16 04:23:04

I'll join you! 5day blast transferred today. Fingers and toes crossed.

Hopeful16 Sat 11-Jun-16 08:55:42

Good luck - I've just been through it and on day 10 had a complete meltdown with DH and was convinced it hadn't worked.

We got a positive but I did wait till the full 2 weeks were up in case the result was influenced by the drugs in my system.

Now waiting to go for my first scan and the wait for this is killing me too!

funkymonk Sat 11-Jun-16 10:13:34

Hi Kmmr! Nice to have some company! Is this your first transfer?

Thanks Hopeful! Great news for you and hoping your scan date comes round fast! My transfer was a natural FET so no hcg to wear off. I'm tempted to test tomorrow (equivalent of 10dpo) but I know this is too early.

Hopeful16 Thu 16-Jun-16 18:08:36

How are you doing Funky? Hope you're keeping sane.

I've just had my first scan and I'm a bit shell- shocked as we've just seen our little one!!! 7 weeks with a lovely strong heartbeat - I cried it was so amazing!

Amara123 Thu 16-Jun-16 18:59:55

Me goes sooo slowly! I had et on Tuesday so very early days for me.

kmmr Fri 17-Jun-16 20:53:06

It's my second transfer, the first is asleep in the room next to me.
I took a test at 5dp transfer and a bfn. It's now 7 days and I'm too scared to test. Got a really busy weekend so I'm going to key that distract me and push on into next week. Blood test on wednesday.

Symptoms are coming and going, but I know it's probably just the progesterone. Such a difficult wait!

How are you feeling funkymonk?

Hopeful16 Sat 18-Jun-16 09:59:51

Hey funkymonk- how are you feeling?

Have you tested yet? It's agony waiting isn't it!!!

kmmr Sun 19-Jun-16 22:57:36

Well, I'm out. Period starting and BFN today. 9dp5dt. Fuckity fuck

TepidCat Tue 21-Jun-16 19:33:26

That's really shitty kmmr. I'm sorry. I think I remember you from last time. I can't even remember my username but you may remember my story 2 ectopics, Ivf fail and then a 3rd ectopic. Finally got successful on FET and now trying for number 2.

Can I join this thread? Wondering if anyone is still in 2ww or if I need to start another one?

I do ET tomorrow. Terrified. Stressed and feeling very negative. My mum was in hospital yesterday having her stomach pumped (a long term alcoholic) so fending off additional stress.

Grr this process is shitty.

Sorry to be doom and gloom!

Amara123 Tue 21-Jun-16 20:31:44

Poor you Kmmr. I've been there and it's really tough. Be very kind to yourself. Were you on progesterone suppositories or injections?

Tepidcat I am half way through my 2ww. Today i got superfixated on doing a hpt and it was unsurprisingly negative. And rationally I knew it was too early to test but I nearly needed to get it out of my system.
Am on gestone so not sure if I will bleed earlier than otd like I did last time. Kind of getting shitty flashbacks to the last time which is sad, so hoping it's different this time.

TepidCat Sun 26-Jun-16 19:55:50

How are you doing Amara? Anyone else still waiting to test?

The wait is infuriating! 4dp5dt (FET) and I feel nothing. Convinced it is all over and frustrated I can't just find out now.


Amara123 Mon 27-Jun-16 09:04:12

I'm out too. Really beginning to doubt I'll ever have a baby..

AHedgehogCanNeverBeBuggered Mon 27-Jun-16 11:33:41

Hi folks, can I join? I'm not in the 2ww yet, but egg collection is booked for Friday. We've had one cycle of IVF which failed after zero fertilisation followed by a very very late fertilisation which resulted in a very fragmented low-grade embryo which failed to implant. This time round we're going for ICSI at Guys and St Thomas.

Hopefully ET will be on Weds 6th.

Best of luck to all of you, try to keep calm and get plenty of rest. flowers

TepidCat Mon 27-Jun-16 16:48:25

Amara I'm so sorry to hear that. This process really sucks. I know from bitter experience that there is nothing anyone can say to make it any better but I hope you get some peace (in whatever decision you come to) soon.

Hedgehog - I don't think there i anyone other than me left but you are welcome to hang out here. I test on Sunday but I'm not feeling very positive. I feel boring normal nothingness.

Hopeful16 Mon 27-Jun-16 18:27:47

Hi there - I'm still watching and hoping for all of you ladies. I know the process is very unkind and heartbreaking.

We had ICSI and it helped us conceive so fingers crossed for you guys too.

AHedgehogCanNeverBeBuggered Tue 28-Jun-16 12:46:59

Good luck TepidCat, you never know till you test, it could still be +ve news.

TepidCat Wed 29-Jun-16 19:33:37

Thanks - the days are going so slowly!

Yesterday I felt a couple of intense waves of nausea but today I've gone back to feeling fine again. It's a total headfuck!

AHedgehogCanNeverBeBuggered Sat 02-Jul-16 17:05:02

Any news yet TepidCat? I've just been called by the embryologist to say we have 10 fertilised embryos, so hoping for a 5-day transfer.

I'm praying and hoping like mad for you.

TepidCat Sun 03-Jul-16 20:13:26

BFP! I'm in total shock. I thought I'd feel more confident this time but I'm paranoid it won't stick because the test isn't very strong.

TepidCat Sun 03-Jul-16 20:16:05

Oh and that is fantastic news Hedgehog. Well done. We had 11 the first round and 3 went to blast. 1 failed, 1 is asleep upstairs and 1 has just given me a BFP. Fingers crossed. I know how nerve wrecking those calls from the embryologist are.

Hopeful16 Sun 03-Jul-16 22:24:42

Congratulations- take a deep breath and try to relax til your scan.

AHedgehogCanNeverBeBuggered Mon 04-Jul-16 12:05:00

Oh Tepid that's BRILLIANT!! grin flowersgrinflowers

Congratulations! I really really hope it sticks. How long do you have to wait for a scan?

NotSpartacus Mon 04-Jul-16 18:35:13

Hello ladies, I am in the 2ww too. Had FET last Tuesday so currently 6dp5dt. My 'symptoms' are occasionally sore boobs and nausea that comes and goes. These could also be the result of the zillion doses of progesterone I am on (my progesterone is 290, my clinic are not messing about). I guess I could test but am not ready to burst the bubble just yet. How soon did those of you who know the outcome test?

Hopeful16 Mon 04-Jul-16 19:56:29

I was a good girl and waited the two weeks - I couldn't bear the thought of an incorrect test after all of the waiting.

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