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2 ectopics + 3 miscarriages + multiple failed fertility trearments...... We still made it!!!!!! <3

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missmachete Fri 26-Feb-16 08:34:58


I've been reading mumsnet since forever but were too lazy to sign up myself. Now I am here because I believe I have to share.

It is a long story, but all I want to tell you is : don't give up!

My story began with a marriage to my sweetheart in 2007, following ectopic pregnancy, one more ectopic and fertility treatments ( stimulation) and a miscarriage and then my husband and me just could not anymore and we split up. They say that sometimes misery can make you become even closer but sometimes it makes you split up...

Long story short ( I honestly could write a poem about my life)... I lost everything that year (2011).... And I moved to a different country (UK) and started my life from the beginning ( quite hard when you are not a teenager anymore), I've met my partner, who is my best friend, my support and my life now and I made him understand straight away that I might not be able to have children, he was fine with it, but he was ready to try.... Again, two miscarriages in a year.

Tbh I did not even have tears to shed the last time, it was just anger all inside me, why me? Why so many times? Why there is so many 17 years old alcoholic mums with 2 kids and pregnant belly in my area standing and smoking next to asda ( sorry, bit emotional here)?

I was reffered to a miscarriage clinic and after a long treatment - we did it!!!! I had a horrible high risk pregnancy with more than 20 scans and spending more time in the hospital than at home, I had a horrible labour with emergency cs, I almost lost my womb and am still recovering from the blood loss and complications, but WHO CARES!!!!!????

We have our miracle baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am so so so happy!

My journey took me all in all around 7 years.... And it was probably my destiny to go through that road ( bit too much, hah), but I am finally here, I am a mother and the Thank you goes to my wonderful bf (husband soon) who did not give up on me and he was happy to be with me no matter what.

Please, ladies, don't give up- as long as you have one ovary left and as long as you can rely on IVF or any other treatment- don't give up!!!!!
I wish you all love and happiness <3

Peace smile?

sunshineonarainyday1 Fri 26-Feb-16 14:02:41

Congratulations on making it through what sounds like a very difficult road! And congratulations on becoming a Mummy!

What did you have and how long ago?!

missmachete Fri 26-Feb-16 16:45:41

Thank you, sunshine x

Back in 2011 I had two IUI (insemination) and few stimulations, but it never worked.

This time I had a treatment plan for NK cells (dr Shehata) and hormones+ steroids, but it happened with a spontanic ovulation.

Sandinmytoes Fri 26-Feb-16 23:01:59

Congratulations !
That's been a hard journey

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