Struggling for years with secondary infertility. Thrown the book at it.
Best friend (fully aware of all the details) has just announced to me in middle of social function her positive preg test for her second preg.
Why is it so hard? The logical part of my brain is so happy for them, but most of my brain is bitter and feels like the bottom has dropped out of my world.
I don't think our friendship sadly will survive in its current form as she clearly doesn't "get it" given the mode of telling me and the fact that she seemed surprised when DH and I vanished.
I'm having a complete meltdown about it
I feel like I've lost my friend and I'm going to end up with an only child and no friend.
Any advice?
Does counselling make things any easier? Will our friendship survive? How will I cope when she (inevitably) has a whinge about being pregnant/having 2 children?
I'm cross with myself as this scenario was totally predicable and I have spectacularly failed to deal with it.
I'm having a complete meltdown and wonder if a few days off work would help or do people think that staying busy was helpful?
Sorry for the rambling...
For those of you having to tell a friend this, I would suggest sending a message to them so that they have the time to process the information away from you/anyone else.
I feel like a sad bitter individual and I'm sure she's better off without me dragging her down anyway.
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Disorderedthought · 26/10/2015 17:59
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