Hi all, I have been TTC for almost 2 years now (I'm almost 33). Have spent the past year having blood tests, a scan and hubby had his sperm tested (he's fine). Finally had my first appointment with a consultant on 24th November.
Sadly he told me they won't help unless I lose weight. My BMI at the appointment was 39. It was pretty soul crushing, having waited so long for the appointment and finally felt I was getting somewhere.
Anyway I joined slimming world immediately and have lost a stone since the appointment. BMI is now 36. To be honest I knew full well I was too fat for IVF but had expected them to at least give me a Fallopian tube scan and prescribe clomid. I didn't know how much I weighed but I am 5'10 and have a large frame, so even when I was a size 12 and at my thinnest my BMI was overweight.
Anyway, it has taken almost a month for me to get into the mental state where I feel I can post on here! I have a friend at work going through the same thing but she's been TTC a year less and now got clomid, I am so scared she'll be telling me she's pregnant any time soon (I know this makes me a bitch, I'd be happy for her obviously but I know I would feel terrible).
I am pretty sure I am not ovulating because I am overweight and have too much oestrogen and no progesterone. Scan showed I don't have PCOS/endo. I was on the pill for 13 solid years and can't help feeling that could be a factor too.
Anyway.... My question is, how do I get clomid as I think that could work for me? Would a private clinic help me or am I still too fat? Does anyone have any recommendations of this? I have another 4 stone to go and I don't feel I can cope with such a long wait again for the NHS.
Thank you if you made it this far! :)
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NHS won't prescribe me clomid
strangeasangels · 13/12/2014 13:22
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