Two failed ivf cycles this year with an original diagnosis of mfi.
However consultant now thinks the problem is me as apparently it only takes one sperm - even though we have motility of 15% and morphology of 1%. He thinks it could be implantation.
The consultant wants me to have a lap which I will have to have privately through my health insurance. Health insurance won't pay for fertility reasons so consultant has advised me to lie to gp and say I have endometriosis symptoms which I'm not going to do.
Looked instead at going abroad for donor treatment but needed smear first in line with their regulations. Went today (privately again can't have on nhs) and saw same consultant as for ivf.
Smear was total agony and caused me to bleed. Before the test had even started. I've had egg transfer using a speculum and it's been fine but as soon as he put it in it was agony and bleeding started.
Consultant said this is probably a polyp which may or may not be cancerous and has said before proceeding I need to have a hysteroscopy, a hycosy and a lap and I need to see if the insurance will pay.
I'm absolutely at my wit's end. We started with male factor and now have:
Endometriosis
Possibly cancerous polyps
It obviously just isn't meant to be is it? I can't keep taking all this time off work. I think this is it for us.
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I think it might be time to admit defeat. So sad.
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Hurricaneinateacup · 15/11/2014 18:54
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