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emma077 Thu 03-Apr-14 13:32:57

Hi everybody!!!
I’m new to this board and I want to share my story.
I’m in despair now!
I don’t have children at all and most of all I strived for is becoming a mother. I want to feel what is it to be a mother, to have child, take care of him and know that somebody in this world needs you very much. I guess it’s pleasant feeling …
I wanted to adopt a child. I’m from Germany and wanted to adopt a child from Russia. Due to my problems with health I can’t carry out a child myself so the only two options for me are adoption or surrogacy. I was totally against the surrogacy so I decided to adopt. I was in queu for 3 years…I gathered all the documents…I even can show you the photo ofmy boy….
here is his photo ion official site
And what now? the forbidden foreigners to adopt their children and the three years of torture ended with no result.
I’m in despair!
My friend also had problems with health and she took part in surrogacy program in one clinic. She said that I’m stupid and should try also this program but I didn’t want to…but now I think she was right then. Her baby is more than a year now and I have nothing.
So now I also want to try this clinic. She says that it nice. Now I’m waiting for arranging the date of arriving…

Nectarines Thu 03-Apr-14 13:38:52

I'm not sure it's a good idea to share his photo like this. I think you should have it removed.

suzylee73 Thu 03-Apr-14 19:35:12

Oh Emma sad I'm so sorry to hear your story. Life is so unfair! Here in the UK it normally takes less than a year to adopt.
I would seriously consider surrogacy it would be so lovely to have a baby, if not can you adopt from Germany instead?

emma077 Mon 07-Apr-14 10:59:18

Nectarines, why can't i show his photo?
i wanted to share with you...

emma077 Mon 07-Apr-14 11:04:58

Suzylee73, yes adoption is a long process...i'm totally broken....three years passed and no result...i'm in dispair...
after this i seriously decided to use the program of surrogacy.
my friend also has the problem with carring out and she sugested me to try surrogacy together but i was totally against it and decided to adopt...and what do i have now? - nothing...and my friend - baby...
so this made me to change my mind.

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