Hi, I was hoping to get some honest opinions here as I'm in a dilemma at the moment. I'll start at the beginning. I have a very good friend who is infertile and has tried numerous treatments for years unsuccessfully. After years of watching her and her partner struggle I offered to be an egg donor. Obviously there are many issues that we would need to consider carefully but one that I keep coming back to is this-they don't intend to tell the child that they were conceived using donor eggs. It's not that I wat to be named as the biological mother or wish to have a relationship of any more than a friend to that child but I just get this nagging feeling that they are taking a human right away from that child. I think we should all know where we come from and it feels like deception to me. I don't know what to do now as obviously I want to help and know the baby is very much wanted and will be much loved and cared for but this issue has got me all confused.
What do you all think about this? Is it even my business whether they tell their child or not?
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raininginlondon · 27/09/2013 11:16
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