Sorry to hear about your loss. I am on day 1 of clean living after appointment to sign consents & get treatment plan yesterday. I'm already hankering after chocolate and I don't know how I'm going to keep this up for a few months
Yay on your referral 3 cycles is great, how did you manage to get three?
I feel the same about taking any chances. At this moment it's the hope. We had two years and not a whiff of a bfp. Then straight after my fertility appointment for the referral I got one naturally. But it wasn't meant to be so I lost my little one
As it took us two years to conceive, and I have known fertility problems, the lovely fertility consultant still referred us.
I'm now waiting for my appointment. I won't be able to start ivf until I've had a few normal cycles. had a scan today and apparently things are back to normal so I just need to wait.
Gin 3 cycles is what my pct offer if you meet their criteria. I'm very very fortunate I know. Despite that I had my IVF referral rejected 4 times for one reason or another. In fact it took nearly 10 months just to get accepted. So it has felt like a real uphill struggle to get this far.
I have to wait for our letter to come from HFEA to say we are registered with them before we can request treatment. The hospital can then refuse if they are too busy & you have to wait until your next cycle. Apparently they can turn you down twice but they have to accept you on the third request. So I could easily be waiting a few months as well.
You never know we could be having our treatment at the same time
I waited 7 years to get my chance at ivf, we get one go with our PCT but I was thrilled when I got that letter! Luckily it ended in a BFP I am 6 weeks pregnant so still have a long way to go. I stopped alcohol and caffeine 3 months before treatment. Ate really healthily, I also got H to start taking wellman conception once a day, he also gave up alcohol and caffeine. Good luck x