Hi All
This is my first post, I'll try not to ramble! I actually feel like a bit of a hoax even being on this website as I'm not a mum and am unlikely to ever become one. I was told a few years ago that I have PCOS, at the time I had a partner who was supportive but we've since split up. I am now 26, single, no hope of finding 'the one' anytime soon and I'm desperately worried that my time is running out! At the risk of sounding overdramatic, my thoughts of full of the life I always wanted but is gradually seeming less and less likely, I have always dreamt that I'd have children fairly young (as my mum did), all my friends are having children (even the ones who always said they wouldn't) infact, one of my best friends now has three children at age 27!
I have a confession to make about the reason I ended up on this site, I was looking for a third birthday present for one of my close friend's lovely little girl, obviously I ended up on websites like Mothercare etc, (here comes the embarrasing bit) I always seem to end up looking at nursery furniture, prams, clothes, maternity clothes etc and WISHING that it was me... I'm ashamed to admit that I seem to find this addictive and continue to torture myself on various websites looking at everything from highchairs and bottles to car seats and monitors. Even support sites for people with PCOS get the same treatment, instead of reading threads relating to how to manage my symptoms, I look at the threads about people who are pregnant, birth stories etc. Instead of deriving encouragement of hope from these posts, I feel bitter and jealous; but I can't stop. I really really do realise how crazy this sounds, I'm generally very sane I promise. I suppose I just wanted to confess, to anyone (imagine if I told my friends I imagine they'd have me sectioned!).
Has anybody else felt so utterly hopeless that they dont quite know how to deal with it? How do you learn to cope? I dont want to feel like this any more!
Sorry for the long post and crazy ramblings!
FW
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FlorenceW · 03/10/2011 15:05
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