Yes, every pregnant woman will be vaccinated before the end of the month and those that are missed will spontaneously combust
Your friend is a muppet. The vaccine is being offered, you have to decide if you want it. You are more likely to die because you have high blood pressure from worrying about swine flu than from swine flu itself.
She is certainly pretty unlikely to die of swine flu.
I have had it (the flu not the jab), and even though I have underlying health probs (chemotherapy for BC) it was just like ordinary flu. Horrible, but nothing out of the ordinary. it is like that for the vast majority of people. Bit of a rest and some tamiflu (plus lots of toilet paper - it does make you go a bit...) - is all that is required.
Definitely do NOT have to have the jab if you don't want to. Entirely your choice.