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21 year old woman spared jail despite abusing 11 year old boy (sensitive)

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Sidge Mon 05-Oct-15 17:59:46

Has anyone seen this case in the news?

So she has sex with an 11 year old but it was OK because he was "up for it" according to his dad (who I read on the DM page had also had a sexual relationship with her).

It beggars belief that she was treated with such leniency IMO. I also hope that Children's Services are involved with the boy and his dad who seem to have some dysfunctional attitudes - how can any child of 11 be "sex mad"?!

I think it's very worrying.

MrsP777x Mon 05-Oct-15 18:01:36

There would be murder If that was my son.

Bellemere Mon 05-Oct-15 18:03:14

I really cannot understand this case at all. Utter madness.

Oswin Mon 05-Oct-15 18:04:08

Oh my, that is horrible. Awful. How can he stand in court and say that. Poor kid.

mrstweefromtweesville Mon 05-Oct-15 18:05:50

I don't know what to say. It's quite horrific.

Trooperslane Mon 05-Oct-15 18:10:16

I felt sick when I read that.

An 11 year old CAN'T consent, surely.

MissEeerie Mon 05-Oct-15 18:10:32

I read this earlier. I'm still 'WTAF?'

BarbarianMum Mon 05-Oct-15 21:26:33

Judges, gotta love them. Still upholding the fallacy that children can consent to sex angry

ScrambledSmegs Mon 05-Oct-15 21:28:53

What?! His father is seriously messed up. What the hell?

scatterthenuns Mon 05-Oct-15 21:29:43

That Dad isn't fit to parent.

Pooseyfrumpture Mon 05-Oct-15 21:30:35

Why wasn't his father prosecuted for abuse as well?

Mintyy Mon 05-Oct-15 21:33:06

I was so upset when I read that story. That little boy has been utterly failed by his parents.

BetLynchsBeehive Mon 05-Oct-15 21:36:50

I can't understand the judgement.

Sidge Mon 05-Oct-15 21:45:06

I'm glad I'm not the only one that just went "WTAF?" when I read it.

She may not have received a custodial sentence but I seriously hope there is some heavy SW involvement with that family.

DevonFolk Mon 05-Oct-15 21:48:14

That little boy has been utterly failed by his parents. And by the rest of society it would seem sad

JeffsanArsehole Mon 05-Oct-15 21:48:20

I'd prosecute the father for abuse

And I'd sling her in jail for a 5 year sentence. I can't even imagine someone describing a girl as 'sex mad' and saying she consented - oh wait, I can - we call them paedophiles

So dads a paedophile in my view

BarbarianMum Mon 05-Oct-15 21:57:44

Is it possible to put in a complaint about the judge, does anyone know?

AnyoneButAndre Mon 05-Oct-15 22:00:29

When I first saw this I was utterly baffled by the father's behaviour but if he was having sex with the perpetrator it starts to make a horrible sort of sense. I'd lock them both up.

QueenLaBeefah Mon 05-Oct-15 22:03:53

She really should have been given a prison sentence

And the dad's parenting skills are dubious at best.

Redcrayons Mon 05-Oct-15 22:07:37

I'd want to rip her head off it that was my 11 year old. WTF is this man thinking.

ICantFindAFreeNickName2 Mon 05-Oct-15 22:07:59

I was shocked too. If it was a 11 year old girl & a 21 year old man, the sentence would have been completely different.

TheWildRumpyPumpus Mon 05-Oct-15 22:11:46

The poor 11 year old said AT THE TIME that he knew it was wrong and didn't enjoy it.

So how the judge has gone on the dad's say so that his son is 'a bit of a lad' who was 'well up for it' is truly disgusting. At 11! Any decent parent, thinking their 11 year old was 'well up for sex' would be seeking assistance and support from services - not cheering them on from the sidelines.

Fissues Mon 05-Oct-15 22:40:01

Also had an enraged WTAF response to this - how on earth any 11 year old can consent to sex (especially to somebody 10 years older than them, not that age is relevant) is beyond me.

I know we're not privy to all the facts but I've racked my brain and cannot think of any extenuating circumstances that would make this sentence appropriate.

Blu Mon 05-Oct-15 22:41:16

"A notch in his belt "???
That just about sums up the way sexist crap has led to this poor boy being so badly let down by the judge and his father and their whaay-hay attitude .


That boy should be allowed to sue .

DioneTheDiabolist Mon 05-Oct-15 22:50:49

I think our judges need to be educated on child sex abuse and its repercussions. It seems like not a week hoes by without one making fuckwitted decisions that let victims and the public down.

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