Hi I'm new to this site I just want a little bit of advice -
My partner is due to come out of prison, reason he is in there is he was involved in a fight charged with assault ,
It's his first time in prison and has hit him hard , he has learnt his lesson to walk away in future !
Social sevices became involved as he was planning to come home they say it's common procedure -
I have no issues with there involvement -
But what I do have issues with is my social worker has concerns with me having 3 children to 3 different men. ( i was with there dads 2 year - 7 year and 8 years ! On top of that he has issues they don't see there dads - my eldest dads a paedophile-
The second child his dad couldn't handle the split so chose to walk away from his child as it hurt him too much ( his excuse ) I tried many times to make him have contact )
My 3rd child which the sw is well aware of tried to practically have me killed a few months after I asked him to leave - no violence in the relationship only after I found he had a secret drug habit so ended the relationship- he has been in prison for arson against me , a lot he hasn't been charged with - sending a knife man in to burgle me - had 4 men come to my home kick my door down with petrol plan to burn me - setting my car on fire - it's parked In front of my gas mains .. Damaging every car I have owned in 2 years , tried to get my 15 yr old st time into bed ! Who called him dad ! )
too much to list , this went on for 2 years , I ended up with police cctv .
There is a court order preventing him seeing the child also as the judge wanted him to do drug and alcohol test for contact with the child , I did mine - all clear I don't even drink , he didn't do his or show to the hearing , the judge has concernes ,
Even though sw has full knowledge of this he still shared his concern with my partners mum !! He has these concerns ! ( his words to mother in law .. I'm concerned she has 3 children to 3 different men - also they don't see them ..
How dare he judge me for one , and 2 feel the need to share that with my partners mum !
He also asked my partners ex about my child's farther !!
He sat there after all I told him the child's farther did and asked why does that stop the child seeing her dad !!
He wants to no were he lives !
I can't have any more involvement with my ex if he gets any wiff of ss it will all start again - he would love to ruin my life ..
Why is the sw so hell bent on my child seeing a man she doesn't even remember no more , let alone tried to kill her mum ! And put her at Risk With the fire and every thing elce ,
She calls my partner dad she loved him and he loves her , the sw keeps reminding me my kids are not his and why have I alloud my child to call him dad ..
Not sure if it's even a culture difference -
My step dad bought me up he did a fab job I don't see the issue .
Not sure if any one can shed light on his reasons .
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Rouge33 · 11/04/2017 17:59
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