The kids do sod all really and what little they do do is always under sufference (DS1) and not always good enough (DS2) so it makes more worse. DD tries.
What jobs would you give for 4, 6 and 8 year olds which are fair and how often?
My MIL has had the kids today and I have spent pretty much the whole day cleaning and tidying and ds1 and dd's rooms haven't been done. It took me 2 hours to do ds2's room yesterday and he has a small room.
DH told me to do the downstairs rather than the kids' rooms as it gets me down more.
I just feel like crying or smashing something as they just will not put things away. Things get lost and broken. I have bought as much storage as is acceptable but still, they shove things anywhere and they just don't care. If I explain why I want things put away - so it is easily found/not spoilt, ds1 just gives me a mouthful.
I am sick of washing clean clothes because they have been thrown on the floor as they can't be bothered to put their clothes away.
I even found a wet nappy stuck in pyjama bottoms under ds2's bed yesterday - he is 4.
I think about just leaving things and making them just live in their rooms but then I can't get in to put clean clothes away.
This is all my fault for being fussy about tidying up when they were small and not getting them to help.
They will only help for reward - tv, computer, etc and even then it is done with bad grace and moaning about how hard done by they are.
I have to say it is mostly the 8 year old who argues, the 6 year old will do some and the 4 year old will avoid if he can or do one thing.
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FabBakerGirlIsBack · 24/08/2009 16:06
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