I spend virtually all day doing jobs and it is driving me CRAZY. I have an almost-6yo and a 15mo and I never, ever get to sit down. I also feel really bad that I don't do enough with the kids - I'm always saying "in a minute, I just have to do x first...". It's DH too, not just me. I don't understand why we always have so much to do. I'm not talking about being houseproud and I don't mean jobs like cleaning windows, dusting (we've lived here for 4 years and I honestly don't think I have ever dusted ), organising linen cupboards and so on - I mean the essential day-to-day stuff like getting the washing on and getting dinner ready and having a floor that you can walk across without tripping up! Our house is in a bit of a state - we've had an extension built and we haven't got proper storage yet, would that make a difference? I feel like I'm always tidying things away - I could spend hours every day moving things to their right places. I hate having cluttered worktops and yesterday I spent half an hour clearing everything off it but within an hour it was full again. Full of weird things like keys, gloves, a hairdryer, bits of toys, an ice-cube tray and so on, how does it get like this?! And the kids don't really play with toys, they just get stuff out and leave it around the house. We tend to do a big toy tidy at the end of the day but there is still toy stuff everywhere. Bits of one game could be spread across every room in the house. I've tried getting DD to tidy her things away and we had a 'no toys out unless the previous one has been put away first' but she can't seem to do it - am I expecting too much to get a 5yo to tidy? We have one of those stair baskets and every day I have several baskets full of stuff to go upstairs then stuff to come downstairs again. And the baby's favourite game is opening cupboards and putting the stuff everywhere - do you just have to accept that with babies?! I had plans to give him just one cupboard full of interesting things but that hasn't worked for various reasons. The playroom is a disaster - we have open shelving and toys on the floor, which I guess encourages them to get stuff out rather than play properly. Would we be better off with proper basket storage so things aren't quite as on display or would they still just get everything out? But then I don't want to be one of those parents who doesn't like their kids to play because it makes a mess! We have a toybox but everything falls to the bottom and you can't find anything in there. Maybe part of the problem is that the baby doesn't nap properly - I get an hour a day if I'm lucky, not like the 2 hours that I had with DD...
Sorry, this has been a very long post but heeeeelp, can anybody save us from constant job-doing?!
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Tinkjon · 30/12/2008 09:31
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