I've never posted on here before but I really don't know where to go.
My partner, daughter (18 months) and myself have lived with my dad for a year now, he invited us to live so we could save for a house, it's a decent size house and he lives on his own. We have our own living room and the three of us share a bedroom which I keep on top of. I have realised over the last year that my dad doesn't like doing any house work. The kitchen is constantly trashed he takes something out of the cupboard uses it and never puts it back. I've never seen him do the dishes or empty the dishwasher, never mops or vacuums despite having two dogs that are always muddy and shedding hair, bins just get squashed down instead of taken out, he cooks and uses every single pot and pan and never helps clean up after, I cook and I still clean up after.
I've tried asking him to do odd things and he just acts like he does plenty already, we pay him rent and do most food/house hold shopping aswell.
I do have a part time job and a toddler to look after so it's not like I do nothing all day.
For example this morning I plonked dd infront of the telly so I could clean the kitchen for 15 mins. Two hours later my dad makes lunch and it looks like a bomb has gone off in there. He then goes and watches telly then goes out leaving me to clean up the mess. My partner helps out a lot but is working long hours to save for a house.
I don't even know what I'm asking I'm just so upset about the situation its like I'm expected to clean the kitchen multiple times a day. I love my dad but I'm starting to resent him. I'm not sure my mental health can cope with another year of tidying up this much.
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Hellopickle · 22/10/2019 15:03
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