I live in a very, very tiny house. I have a very, very large amount of stuff :). This hasn't always been an issue and we generally muddled along quite happily (if a little dustily!). Unfortunately, several months ago I had a severe back injury and I was not able to walk for a period of time. I moved up to crutches and now I'm walking fairly well and am even supposed to be going back to work in just over a week. My problem is this! While I was ill, I couldn't do a thing in the house, not anything. It drove me up the wall to have to sit in a chair watching my DP struggle with everything. We have a lot of pets which is fine when we are both well but while I was ill the priority was to keep me and the animals fed and healthy and everything else got lost.
I have made a good start on the kitchen on my own but need to gut everywhere else. My small bedroom is full of stuff and that might have to wait but our bedroom, the bathroom, living room, kitchen and understairs all need doing. I'm desperate to get it done before I go back to work.
My DP has got Fri Sat and Sun off and I desperately want to do it this week. I've never been faced with such a mammoth job before though and I'm getting anxious at the thought of it. I get anxious a lot at the mo, mainly due, I think to being stuck in the house for 5 months with barely any company and barely any time out of the house!
My DP is extremely lazy and has kept things ticking over but now I can get access to places I couldn't before I am finding where he has hidden everything. It's the kind of situation where superficially stuff looks ok but just under the surface it's a nightmare. There are still things I struggle to do such as hoovering etc but he has been doing these for me when I point it out.
The problem is that my energy levels are still low, again I suspect to do with being in the house all the time and I have to motivate my DP who is lovely and has done so well for the last few months but who is, ultimately, a bit bone idle :).
I'm already worried about how to motivate both of us and it just seems like such a huge task. The front and back gardens both need mowing as well which adds to my stress as even when I look out of the window, all I see is mess!!! I really need this doing this weekend as I cannot go back to work with it like this. I am likely to be exhausted and in a lot of pain for a few weeks so I could do without having to gut the house as well!
So... after that mammoth post (sorry, got a bit carried away writing it all down!!) has anyone any suggestions for dealing with this, it is far beyond a bit of a tidy, it needs a damn good going over. How can I keep us both motivated and any ideas on where to start? We have to do this on our own as neither of us have family nearby and I'd be too ashamed to let anyone in tbh.
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foxtrottango · 05/10/2011 14:51
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