what is a reasonable age to expect children to help tidy their own rooms?
My own mother failed at teaching her children any of what they now call "Life skills." She said "youth is for enjoyment" which meant that I learned to cook via friends when I was about 23, and only stopped leaving all my clothes all over the floor when I was about 37.
I am not being lazy but I want to teach my own child that tidying up is part of life. I suffer tremendous anxiety and stress over not being able to to find things because I never learned how to be tidy. It takes a colossal effort to work a little tidying into every day.
I try to get DD to help but she just refuses. She won't clean up her room. I clean it, then after a day it is a mess again. DH is happy to live in a pig sty by the way, and does nothing to contribute to picking up after DD. If I have been at work, and he's doing childcare, he doesn't even do the washing up, let alone pick up toys.
What age is reasonable to make children help? And how does on go about it?
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marykat2004 · 22/06/2011 21:32
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