Grandma has been v. genial today (my mum)so we've had a nice relaxed day with the cousins. My sister is away for two days so I'm looking after an eight year old and 14 year old (actually 14 year old is looking after everyone)
Had major row with Dsis before she left ; beginning to understand why the children children are always bickering,as the adult children do something similar when put together, something to do with siblings and parents etc etc...I feel tremendously calm now she isn't here - am I perhaps still attention seeking ...consults inner pyschotherapist
Mum does lots of things for us (like create an absolutely stunning garden) except mind children and cook any meals that are suitable for children: she thinks the only things kids eat is sausages and fried potatoes, so it is struggle to keep family food interesting and healthy and stop her complaining about saucepans, or offering strange alternatives. Anyway in rented cottage it is much easier and very nice to be in charge.
OFM next year you must come and visit, still finding my feet a bit dealing with strange family and with dh absent. It is incredibly beautiful here, although I suppose Sligo must be even more stunning.
The children played on grassy banks all day long, swam in murky unchlorinated swimming pool, ate carbonara. Ds1 still worryingly fat (not mum's fault - combination of his leg, sweet tooth, greed and no PE for a long time), so I am having to pay him to take aerobic exercise. He can't jump at all due to bad leg and very wary of danger(as am I), and keeps giving up so needs certain amount of bossy personal trainer imput.
Dh coming in a week or so, he claims he misses me
Hope your weekend goes well Ruby
Unripe brambles galore here, don't know if they will ripen in this climate though till Sept...loads of loganberries though Grouchy hope ants are inspiration to Ed.