I know I am, but I'm finding it difficult in the current climate and am looking for any experience/ support/ advice.
DD2 has had 2 yearly visits now, and DD1 2 also (from a different person as one comes under secondary and one under primary) DD1's visit was only about 3 weeks ago. He also saw DD2 and chatted a bit to her, and we touched a bit on DD2's education as she will be secondary and under his banner next year.
Anyhow, primary bloke made a visit for DD2 a few weeks back. Like I said, he's seen her twice before so no reason to suppose anything wrong on his part. I cancelled the visit. This was because I was having hospital treatment. My OH phoned and said I was having lots of hosp treatment and I wasn't well enough and we would phone when I was.
Only a day or so later he phoned us, saying he MUST make another appointment as she is overdue and he must see her. I agreed to this coming Tuesday, mainly because I thought I would be OK by now and have no particular gripe about seeing him - DD2 quite enoys showing off to him!
However, I'm still not well. If you read any of my posts elsewhere you'll see I'm in the very early stages of what's sadly turning out to be a complicated pregnancy, with threatened miscarriage - and I just don't feel up to it. Also I've been told to rest completely by the hospital.
I'm worried about refusing because I'm worried that cancelling again will get them sending social services in or something. I'm also worried that being confined to bed all this time (which I am right now) will make them think I'm not fit to home educate. That's rubbish - my girls are quite capable of doing stuff themselves without me at all - but I don't think we have the kind of LA who will see it that way.
I've always got on well with them, but I've always been an easy case, so to speak, and I've heard terrible horror stories about people in our area who have refused visits.
I'm wondering about saying that I will send them a written submission of what DD2 has done and will see them at a later date, but I will phone them, not vice versa.
The whole thing is ridiculous box ticking especially when the secondary advisor saw them both only a few weeks back!
Just wanted to ask and to get support! This badman stuff has made the LA throw their wieght around much more than they used to.
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Am I still OK to refuse a home visit?
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musicposy · 20/02/2010 20:29
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