When we were registering ds1 for reception we talked about HE, but decided that school might be best and that we'd give it a go.
I was apprehensive and absolutely decided that if ds1 didn't like school then he'd be out and HE immediately.
So, he started in September. we've had some blips with his behaviour there, but his teacher said that she thinks he's settled now, seems happy in class and I think he seems happy there too. He has made friends etc etc
But I have this gut feeling that I want to HE him.
I strongly believe in a mothers instinct, and that if that is shouting at you to do something then perhaps you should listen.
However, I had a truly horrid time at school, and I am worried that that is skewing my thoughts. maybe I want to HE because my school was shit- not because I think it would be best for him??
I hate being tied in by school times, I hate uniform, I hate the reward charts etc etc
But there are also things I like. ds1's teacher right now seems very nice, he likes her and the TA, they're doing a good job of helping to teach him to stay calmer and use words instead of screaming at people (something I struggle with), and of course there is the social aspect.
I think the social side of it worries me most. I am not sociable. I find it incredibly hard to get out and do things and go to groups. I've just googled and there is no local HE group here either, i'd have to travel quite far, and tbh i don't want to be driving for miles and miles... we moved to this house so that we could walk to school.
so many things to think about. I don't know what I want people to say really, but i'm just trying to get all these issues clear in my head and decide what to do for the best.
oh, and I also have a 2yr old and a 6 month old to throw into the mix..... anyone else HE with several kids??
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would you HE if your child was happy at school?
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thisisyesterday · 08/01/2010 19:45
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