I've just spent an hour being lectured by my sister about how wrong HE is and not fair on the children and blah blah blah.
She was so incredibly rude and saying I am doing harm to my DC's by HE, that they cannot get the education they need from me and then went to the old standby of, "But what about socialisation?"
No matter what I said she was not willing to admit that HE can work and be a positive thing.
She says she thinks I'm a very intelligent person (gee, thanks, sis!) but yet she clearly doesn't think I'm intelligent enough to know what and how to teach my child or intelligent enough to know if HE isn't working out for my DC's.
I don't even know why I tried to get her to see my point of view.
When I pointed out that she was ignorant of HE she took it as a great insult and wailed on at me about how rude I was being. When I asked what exactly she knew of HE and different ways of doing it and how many books/reports she'd read about it and how many people she knew that had been HE'd/were being HE'd she had to admit that NONE was the answer to all. Err, think I've made my point that you are ignorant on HE, sis.
I mentioned autonomous education and she nearly blew her top. The whole idea of it is so beyond her she could barely speak to tell me how truly awful an idea it was.
She's is not interested in that I think HE is right for my children so that's why I'm doing it and it's not that I think schools are the work of Satan. She seems to take my decision to HE as an insult to her decision to send her DS to school. No matter what I said would get her to stop being so defensive and attacking MY decision. I don't attack hers.
Sorry for huge ranty post but she has made me with frustration. I don't expect all my family and friends to agree with me but I DO expect my own family to support me when they can see that I've made a well thought out choice for my own family. I haven't made this choice on a whim. They don't have to go about singing the praises of HE just because I do it - but not ripping me apart and attacking my views every chance they get would be a nice start.
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Bleatblurt · 31/08/2009 14:40
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