LEA ..what to expect..

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Springsnake Mon 02-Apr-18 23:03:32

We are officially beginning our home ed from 16 April...how long before the Lea are likely to get in touch? What will they expect to see? If I say we are going to do xyz can they hold us to that? Are there any tips I should know...I want to say to them we are deschooling for x amount of time..is this legal? Many thanks in advance

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Cagliostro Mon 02-Apr-18 23:15:18

Unfortunately it’s something that varies hugely by LEA. Do you have a local HE group on FB? You may get a good answer there. Or by posting on a national group possibly.

FWIW though. With us, we had someone visit after a couple of months, and they asked a few questions as they filled in a form. Things like why we decided to HE, what our plans are etc. They really didn’t expect much, they asked to see examples of what they’d been doing, but it really was just a cursory glance. They were far more interested in what we were doing for a social life TBH, checking they were getting out and meeting people, than what they were doing academically. smile

Springsnake Mon 02-Apr-18 23:23:43

Ok thanks ,I hadn't thought of that.hes very anti social..I will put some thought in to how we go about addressing that x

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Saracen Tue 03-Apr-18 08:03:13

Some LAs are very quick off the mark indeed and may get in touch as soon as they discover that you plan to HE, even if you haven't yet begun!

Which country do you live in? If you are in England, you may find this document useful: www.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/288135/guidelines_for_las_on_elective_home_educationsecondrevisev2_0.pdf Though it's ten years old, it is the most recent government guidance to LAs about how they should be conducting themselves. It's useful to be familiar with it and to quote from it if your LA steps out of line.

The need for deschooling is widely recognised in home ed circles, but may not be understood by the LA. Many LAs use staff who have no training whatsoever in home education and usually come from a school background. However, a settling-in period is generally accepted by LAs (see 3.11 of the above document), so I would describe it that way. If they press you to supply information immediately, tell them you are still formulating your approach and ask them to contact you in six months. As for your question of whether deschooling is legal, deschooling is simply the short-term use of a widely-accepted educational approach known as "autonomous education" in the UK or "unschooling" in the US so yes, it should be fine. However, your LA may not be familiar with this idea. If you are still doing it some months down the line (which is fine if it works for you), you may need to be prepared to educate the LA a bit about it and discuss how it works for your child. Feel free to ask here if you need any help with that. Some home educators such as me use the approach for many years and would be happy to help you think it through.

You don't need to accept a visit from the LA, and doing so is risky. Some people have positive experiences and others don't, even within the same LA, even with the same person. Agreeing to a home visit invites the LA staff, who may be poorly trained or simply not understand the needs of your child or your family, to make subjective judgements. If your child has had a hard time at school, having someone come into their home, which should be a safe place, can be threatening. The visitor may say things which will unsettle your child, such as mentioning the possibility of a return to school or criticising your approach. A safer way forward is to send in a written report describing the education you are providing, once you have had some time to get established.

In your report, give examples of what you have done and are doing, but ensure that any mention of future plans is well hedged round with phrases such as "we may", "we are considering", "my child has found an online course which may be suitable", etc. The reason for this is that case law has defined a suitable education very vaguely, but describes it as "achieving what it sets out to achieve". Therefore, ironically, giving detailed plans is worse than giving no plans, because if you don't achieve your plans then you could be said to be failing!

Good luck and I hope you enjoy it! Don't worry too much about the LA. The law gives parents great latitude to educate their children in whatever way works best for them.

Saracen Tue 03-Apr-18 08:10:09

Oh, about your child socialising...

That means different things for different kids. It doesn't have to be in large groups with children of the same age. If your child was overwhelmed by the social demands of school, he may need some time to recuperate without being forced into challenging situations immediately. When you do feel it's appropriate to move forward, follow his lead. Maybe he prefers the company of adults to that of children; that's okay. Maybe he likes to be with just one or two people instead of dozens; that's okay. Maybe he can only cope with the supermarket at less-crowded times; that's okay.

If your son finds everyday social situations difficult, you have plenty of time to coach him to develop strategies to tackle that. You don't have to throw him into such situations before he feels ready.

This is all part of his education, and you can tailor it to his specific needs.

Cagliostro Tue 03-Apr-18 08:34:31

Yes it’s a huge advantage of being able to pick and choose your opportunities for socialising. No more being forced into a noisy room of 30. Without the stress of school he may well want to make and see friends more, it can take time though and a relaxed no pressure approach worked well for my DS. smile

Springsnake Tue 03-Apr-18 18:13:13

Thankyou,that's all very helpful.my biggest worry is getting him out of the house at the moment.hes been school refusing,so I've averaged once a week at getting him out..for my mental health we need to up that..I'm taking plenty of time out when I've relatives to be with him.yeah definitely the main issue is getting him to leave the house.which I hadn't expected,I thought he'd be a happy chap when no longer going to school.i really hadn't expected this point blank refusal to leave the house.really hoping I can sort this with having to involve Camhs

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Springsnake Tue 03-Apr-18 18:14:55

Sorry.with out involving camhs

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