I posted at the beginning of the year and went on to deregister DS (now 14 has HF Autism). By March DS asked to try another Secondary School. The first few weeks were fine but soon he was being being bullied again. School have dealt with the major incidents but he has no friends, hates some lessons due to the teachers and the way they have treated him, he is constantly verbally abused by many of his peers who see his vulnerability. We are now under Camhs, DS now diagnosed with depression and anxiety, many absence so far this term due to self harm, injuries inflicted by a group of boys in school and currently absent because he has tried unsuccessful and continues to threaten suicide if he is made to return to school. I am totally broken by this and have been signed off work by my gp as I am struggling to cope with how bad things have become. So, my plan is to deregister (again). Considering DS’s current mental state I would imagine de schooling for the rest of this school year, then private tuition next year to hopefully achieve Maths and English GCSE’s but most importantly for him to develop life skills and self esteem along the way. We farm, so career wise there will be a job available for DS at home when he is ready so formal qualifications are not so important as they might otherwise be. Mostly I just want my DS to be alive, mentally as well as he can be and coping with life. Please tell me what you think. I feel that I am so badly affected by DS’s situation that it is hard to make a rational decision.
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