Hi, old mumsnetter but new to this board. I've always had home ed in my mind as an option, and know many other people who home ed. DS is in year 1, and a couple of things have made me think I might just want to take him out of school. There are some specific things that I'm unhappy with (we're on our 2nd school already!) but in a more general sense DS is kind of young for his age, and whenever I see him with children his own age I just feel sorry for him, he always seems on the outside of things, whereas in a mixed group with older and younger children he gets on a lot better. I've never liked to idea of children spending all their time just with children their own age.
Other than that he's great. Academically a bit behind his peers, in keeping with his general immaturity, but progressing, loves doing 'work' etc. Some minor problems with behaviour (generally angelic but can become angry quickly and then loses all control) but I feel this might be partly due to stress from school. I should point out that he LOVES school, but I still feel it creates an underlying level of stress in him.
I work full time but do 4 long days. DH works about 30 hours a week self employed but does evening and weekends so he can look after DS2 in the day and do school runs. So if we home schooled we would be doing it as a team, and it would have more effect on DH's life than mine at the moment. We are well educated in completely different areas, so between us we could offer him a range of skills. I'm not sure if I'm being realistic thinking I can home ed while working full time? I'm relying on the fact that as home ed is 1-1 the actual sit down time you would need would be signficantly less. So we could do a couple of hours a day the 3 days a week when I'm at home, and then I could leave him with workbooks, supervised by DH (who would also be teaching him his own stuff including 2 langauges). Also lots of learning through play/activities etc.
At the moment I'm thinking this age is a good age to try it out. He hasn't formed close friendships and school yet (part of his immaturity I think), so we could try it, and if it doesn't work get him back into school and I don't think he would have lost much.
DH is hesitant, and really I feel the decision rests with him, as it will affect him more. Partly I think he's less familiar with home ed than I am, and I'm trying to break down his perception that he will need to run a 'school house' at home. Also, he and DS1 currently rub eachother up the wrong way a lot, but I feel if they were spending more time together they may get back the relationship they had before DS started school (lots of lovely time spent building and fixing things!). Should also mention he and DS2 are very close, lots of lovely play together (as well as fighting!).
I'm not sure what I'm asking really but just wanted to put my thoughts down and see if my situation resonates with anyone here who could share there experiences?
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usefultoken · 07/04/2017 08:12
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