Please help! I have so many people on the other side of the fence (or at least I think they are, I haven't actually spoken to any of them about this).
I have four children, 8, 6, 4 and 2. They are at the local Ofsted Outstanding primary school. I'm involved when I have the time and it is a lovely school on the face of it. However, I know that the teachers are very stressed. Most classes have over 30 children with one teacher and one TA. The hall and classrooms are cramped.
Despite all of this, the three older children like it in varying degrees. I just have concerns as well as big picture worries. The eldest is very proficient in most of the subjects they cover. The 6 year old (summer born) tries so hard to please and is also at expected levels in most subjects. I just wonder if he's going to get lost somewhere in the middle of the class as he's neither exceeding or struggling. I wonder if anyone notices the effort he puts in?
I really resented all of the time other people spent with them when they started school but the head was unwilling to consider flexi schooling.
I don't know if I'm being overly sentimental but I just think they spend so little time with all of us doing what they love and so much time at school, preparing for tests (!) which I know is valuable too. But maybe I wouldn't feel like this if they were around all the time!
We have space at home, animals, climbing trees etc. DH works away all week so I have a lovely nanny who comes a couple of times a week - I thought she could look after a couple of the children while I do something age appropriate with the others (I know how lucky I am).
Most of the stress at home is rushing around fitting in with school hours and getting homework done. They are so much nicer at weekends and holidays.
I just can't stop thinking about having them home but would I be doing them any favours?? DH is corporate and very traditional (but has recently switched to a more ethical and veggie lifestyle).
Sorry, rambling away. We've had such a lovely weekend and I don't want them to go to school tomorrow. Plus the fox got my lovely hens so I'm a bit emotional.
Apologies for the mega essay and thanks in advance!
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